secure attachment

Secure attachment is basically when you feel safe and steady in close relationships, you can be open without spiraling, and when things get messy you try to repair instead of disappearing or attacking. People use the label online because it helps them explain why they act clingy, distant, or anxious with partners. It is also the least dramatic attachment style, which is hilarious considering half the internet treats emotions like a competitive sport. (my.clevelandclinic.org