very demure very mindful

“Very demure, very mindful” is TikTok slang that means, act extra polite, soft, and “girlboss in a cardigan” while being weirdly composed, usually as a joke. It blew up because creator Jools Lebron said the phrase in a viral “how to be demure” style video, then everyone used it to caption any situation they wanted to make sound cutesy and overly refined.