mother

On the internet, mother usually means a woman who is a total stand out and kind of runs the scene, like she is giving “emotional support icon” or “the role model who slays and fixes everything.” It also comes from LGBTQ ballroom culture, where a “mother” was a more experienced, nurturing drag or queer community figure. Basically, it is your way of saying “she owns this moment,” but with the confidence of someone who definitely never